I am getting married tomorrow. Yes, married. Yes, tomorrow. Yes, really. I have found the woman who makes every day feel whole. And I am blissfully, totally, unendingly happy that we have agreed to be each other’s forever. I am also grateful and proud that we are able to declare our love for each other and have it recognized by our city, state and federal government – at least for now.
Being in love in the age of Trump feels like, in itself, an act of rebellion. For marginalized groups, joy is resistance. We will resist the hatred. We will resist the bigotry. We will resist the corruption. We will resist the cruelty.
I don’t know what the days ahead and the rest of this administration will mean for our marriage. But I know that with her I can face anything. Holding each other’s hand we will shine light into the dark places and offer our other hands to those who need it. Thank you, in advance, for your well wishes. And, as always, thank you for reading. Happy wedding weekend, all. I am getting married tomorrow.
Congratulations! I hope you have a great day, and a fantastic life together.
ReplyDeleteMazel Tov and Best Wishes!
ReplyDeleteCongratulations!
ReplyDeleteI'm incredibly happy for you! Keep rebelling, keep loving. Thank you for you.
ReplyDeleteCongratulations! Wishing both of you a beautiful day and a wonderful future. So glad for your happiness xxx
ReplyDeleteCongrats! Wish u both a wonderful day and life together <3
ReplyDeleteCongratulations!
ReplyDeleteBut you're MY fake wife! Damn - I was so gonna come for you if and when my current relationship doesn't work out. I guess I'll just have to stay in it. Oh well.
ReplyDeleteCONGRATS!
Congratulations!Wishing both of you a wonderful day and life.
ReplyDeleteCongratulations!! Many happy wishes for you and your wife!
ReplyDeleteCongratulations! So happy for you! Wish you the happiest day and brightest future together!
ReplyDeleteCongratulations and best wishes in your life together!
ReplyDeleteCongratulations and best wishes for a long, happy life together!
ReplyDeleteOh my goodness, congratulations!!! Best wishes for a glorious day tomorrow and a lifetime of wedded bliss!
ReplyDeleteCongratulations for tomorrow and always.
ReplyDeleteCheers.
Congratulations! And to shamelessly quote from a wonderful movie 'may you grow old together, sharing the same pillow'
ReplyDeleteYes, Yes, Yes! Do it because we CAN. After all those years when we could not, now we can.
ReplyDeleteOk, it is just a piece of paper, not proof of love, etc.
Being a legally recognized Spouse really feels good. Oh yeah---that love part is super, too,
Mazel Tov, baby.
Congratulations and best wishes to the both of you, for now and always!
ReplyDeleteMy Beloved,
ReplyDeleteI cannot wait to marry you tomorrow. You have always amazed me with how beautifully you are able to describe your thoughts and feelings on this blog, to express what so many of us truly feel. I continue to be a loving and adoring DS follower.
But I am the lucky one who sees what a kind, intelligent, HILARIOUS and beautiful woman you are in real life. And to all of her “kittens”, she really is an amazingly kind person.
It is indescribable to look over each morning, and with sheer joy, realize you aren’t just a tantalizing dream, you are my beautiful reality. My love, my heart, lets hold hands and laugh our way through this life together. And collect SO MANY fur babies along the way:)
Forever Yours,
M
Congratulations! All the best to you.
ReplyDeleteHow wonderful! Congrats to you both and may you share every day with love! https://youtu.be/cMfrLFirGWc
ReplyDeleteTake it all in and congratulations! Many blessings to the happy couple!
ReplyDeleteOh, DS, I am so, so, so happy for you. I've become an inconsistent reader over the years (because I'm not the college student I once was, but a full grown lady with too much to do now), but have remained one, nonetheless. Your blog has traveled with me through a truly bizarre portion of my life, and I'm so glad to be able to share this bit of the real world with you. Love is rebellion, and I'm ecstatic that you've found yours.
ReplyDeleteWishing you all the best, always,
Norma Desmond
Wishing you both every happiness!!
ReplyDeleteCongratulations! This is a supernova of joy in the dark emptiness of an otherwise dark time. I am elated for you both.
ReplyDeleteCongratulations! So happy for you both!
ReplyDeleteCongratulations and many, many blessing for a furiously happy life together!
ReplyDeleteBest wishes!
ReplyDeleteI hope a busker sings one of your favorite songs when he sees the newlyweds. It definitely would happen where I live, I hope it happens over there as well.
Congratulations!!
ReplyDeleteMassive congratulations!
ReplyDeleteI've been reading this blog for donkeys years, from back in the day when it was a guilty secret and window to be hidden, to today when I'm sonfar out of the closet it's a tiny wee speck in the distance - and I don't have to rely on popular culture lesbian content because my life has its very own.
In all that time I've loved the fun, the righteous rage, the tank tops dear god the tank tops, the sports, the sgalgg specials, and intros to most if not all of my all time wlw cultural highpoints.
It's never before occured to me to comment, but seeing this pop up I had a weirdly familial Aw DS is getting married wave of happiness, and so felt moved to say thank you for all you've done for me through this blog, and I wish you every joy and happiness in your lives together.
Xxx
Congratulations! My wife and I will be proud to share our anniversary date with you (our 10th tomorrow). I hope it's a wonderful day full of laughter and enduring memories for you two to share for the rest of your lives together.
ReplyDeleteAnd I completely echo the warm sentiments written by the Anonymous poster above. Long time reader, but I haven't posted before, but have enjoyed your work for a long, long time.
Congratulations. I wish you both happiness.
ReplyDeleteCongratulations :)
ReplyDeleteWishing you and your wife to be all the best, DS! You have been a constant in my life, and now you are promising all of this and more to ... So much joy (and snark)!
ReplyDeleteOops, ominous ..., I meant 'your person'. ;)
ReplyDeleteCongratulations to you! Much happiness to you both.
ReplyDeleteYou go, girl(s). Thank you for sharing and inspiring. And be happy :)
ReplyDeleteDear DS, Long time reader and huge fan of your blog and twitter work. Congratulations on this wondeful event. Wishing you happiness always.
ReplyDeleteCongratulations to you and your bride! May you have many, many happy years together!!!!
ReplyDeleteWow! Congratulations! I am incredibly happy for you, even more so considering that we never met. Wishing you both all the joy and health and happiness in the world. And many fur babies! Mazel Tov!
ReplyDeleteCongratulations!!
ReplyDeleteCongrats from Australia! Wishing you both all the happiness 💕
ReplyDeleteMazal tov, from Israel!!! So happy for you!!
ReplyDeleteWooHoo! Congrats!
ReplyDeleteI'll never be able to forget your anniversary, cos it's *my* wife's birthday :)
Congrats again, to both of you, and to DS's M- Awesome comment, and you're a lucky so'n'so!
All the best from South Africa.
congrats!
ReplyDeleteAs you foretold in the first post of the year, https://dorothysurrenders.blogspot.com/2018/01/bring-it-2018.html?m=1, 2018 is going to be ok after all. Congratulations!
ReplyDeleteCongratulations! I hope you share as many happy years together as my partner and I. We are not legally married but had a commitment ceremony after college.
DeleteHurrah!
ReplyDeleteCongratulations! May the best of your yesterdays be the worst of your tomorrows. :D
ReplyDeleteHuzzah! So happy for you both!
ReplyDeleteCongratulations!!! Being married is great!
ReplyDeleteCONGRATS!!!
ReplyDeleteMazel Tov! May you have long and happy lives together!
ReplyDeleteCongratulations! I never thought I wanted to be married...until I met my wife. It's been the best decision of my life. Best wishes to tpu and your beloved!
ReplyDeleteSuch lovely news! Best wishes for a long and happy life together.
ReplyDeleteCongratulations to you both! It really is a wonderful thing being married and being able to say my 'wife'! x
ReplyDeleteI have been reading your blog for years. This is the best thing you have ever posted! So many congratulations and good wishes!
ReplyDeleteCongratulations. I wish you a lifetime of happiness with your wife!
ReplyDeleteCongratulations! We got married in 2016!
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ReplyDeleteCongratulations and much happiness to you both!
ReplyDeleteWonderful, congrats !
ReplyDeleteMay all your days be filled with love <3
Titanica
Congratulations! May your love grow stronger and deeper every day! <3
ReplyDeleteI'm so happy for you! May you have a long life of love, health, happiness, and civil rights.
ReplyDeleteBest wishes for both of you to enjoy a long wonderful life together.
ReplyDeleteWishing you much love and happiness. I hope you have been having an extremely pleasurable honeymoon :)
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Wow. Congrats, Dorothy! I'm so happy for you.
ReplyDeleteBest wishes for you two from Germany!
ReplyDeleteLOVE, HAPPINESS, HEALTH and all that other good stuff ;-)
This is the best news I've heard in a LONG LONG time. So happy for you and your now wife. Wishing you every happiness that you deserve and more!!!
ReplyDeleteCongratulations!
ReplyDeletei'm definitely sharing this wonderful news on rizzoli and isles groups i'm in on facebook :)
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